CAN BONDAGE TOYS IMPROVE SEXUAL PLEASURE?

Bondage toys although commonly used and enjoyed by couples who already know how to use them and have overcome the stigma that could be associated by the mere mention of the term can be a difficult subject to introduce among new couples. The term bondage is likely to excite different feelings in different people depending on their orientation. Think about the risk of trying to use bondage toys on a partner who has been a victim of sexual harassment in the past; it could be so devastating if not properly handled.

There are many different designs of bondage toys making the process of choosing a bondage toys quite an interesting one since the buyer has to consider their own pleasure and comfort when choosing a toy. Due to the fact that people are different and as such will have different preferences, the manufacturers also try to give a variety so that no body feels left out.

The most important factors to consider in the process of choosing any sex toys are the safety of the toys and the pleasure derived from their use. These two factors are so important that it would be difficult to sell any sex toys that do not meet these conditions. The main objective therefore of using bondage toys as a sex instrument is to add some pleasure to the process. It is however important to ensure that the partners’ safety is guaranteed. The very act of bondage is quite intimidating and therefore, any toys that are meant for this kind of act should be made with lots of precautions to prevent any possibility of anything going wrong. It is also for this reason that it is highly advisable never to use bondage toys with strangers. It would be fun to only use the same with your partner and even so after consultations in order to make sure that you both approve of the idea.

Besides the bondage toys, there are other stuff that go side by side such as floggers, paddles and whips. These items are used to give a mock feeling of being subdued for the bonded partner as the free partner enjoys taking control. One thing however that she/he should ensure is to keep the restraints loose and not tight or too sturdy as to inflict any pain on the partner. It is also important for both partners to understand each other and to know when to stop. Proper maintenance of bondage toys is also an important part that every couple using the bondage toys should always pay attention to.

Take the example of straps and bondage hand cuffs, these toys should always be checked to ensure that they are soft and do not give room for the user to feel pain some of the toys that come with straps that are fastened should be checked regularly to confirm that the satraps are not defective in any way if we are to avoid accidents with bondage toys. At times, whips are also used as part of bondage toys but their use should not be meant to be painful as the whipping in the case of punishment. Instead the whipping is done softly and the whips are also not the usual whips but some specifically made whips that are costumed for the task.


Emancipating you partner’s thinking regarding bondage toys is the most important step towards having a fun filled relationship with the use of bondage toys.